The intended parents who are deciding to start their journey of surrogacy have many questions in their mind. They also need to be aware and ready for all the steps involved in the journey they are wishing to begin. They need to be prepared for the surrogacy process which is very tough, expensive and a long process. There are various aspects which need to be considered before starting this expedition.
This article contains useful information about a successful surrogacy journey.
THE SUCCESSFUL SURROGACY JOURNEY
Below is an ultimate guide for a successful surrogacy journey for the intended parents:-
LOOK INTO YOUR COUNTRY’S LAWS
There is a wide variation in the surrogacy laws from state to state all around the world. Some states have thorough laws of surrogacy while others do not have any laws related to this matter. There are also some countries which allow only compassionate surrogacy, such as Michigan and New York. Look into the legal conditions in your country but don’t preoccupy over the details. This is the reason for hiring a lawyer. A well-experienced lawyer can assist you in your surrogacy expedition even in countries where laws are unfavourable.
SELECT A SURROGACY AGENCY AND PROFESSIONALS CAREFULLY
Surrogacy agency and professionals play a vital role in the surrogacy journey so select them carefully. When choosing a surrogacy agency focus on different factors such as its experience of managing successful surrogacy services, charges, credibility, good communication, strong support system, etc.
Similarly, when choosing professionals focus on various factors such as communication, comfort, credibility, experience, etc. All your professionals including fertility insurance professionals, medical specialists, mental health professionals and reproductive lawyers should be carefully chosen.
A team of good professionals is very helpful in making the expedition of surrogacy easy and smooth for the intended parents. Therefore, it’s very important to be careful when selecting a surrogacy agency and a team of surrogacy professionals.
CHOOSE YOUR SURROGATE AND DONOR
A leihmütter (surrogate) and donor play key roles in the surrogacy journey. Especially the relationship of the intended parents with a surrogate is very distinctive. Similarly, the connection between egg and sperm donors is also very significant. Hence, choose those donors and surrogate with whom you are most comfortable and satisfied to have a successful surrogacy journey.
COMMUNICATION PLAYS A VITAL ROLE BUT BE SURE THAT YOU ALL ARE ON THE SAME PAGE
If you wish to attend every landmark appointment or text every day, be sure that your surrogate is also ready for this. However, if you are unable to be there at every landmark appointment due to any reason or travel restrictions, you need to have a surrogate who is more understanding and recognizes your problems. So, be certain that you both have effective communication.
TAKE PSYCHOLOGICAL COUNSELLING AND ASSESSMENT
Fertility counsellors are professionals who provide psychological assessment and counselling to the intended parents as well as the gestational carrier. They are mental health professionals who meet with both (the gestational carrier and the intended parents) separately. Then they have a meeting with both the parties in a group session. The goals and purposes of each of these sessions are different but every session is important.
Psychological counselling and assessment are of vital importance in the surrogacy journey. It helps in understanding all the aspects involved, provides motivation and assists in perceiving the situation accurately.
Hence, it is essential for both the gestational carrier and the intended parents.
RECOGNIZE EVERYTHING INCLUDING WAYS AND COST TO OFFSET
Undoubtedly, surrogacy is an expensive journey. The average price of this journey is about $150,000. However, the final price varies greatly according to your choices and circumstances.
There are two main elements which influence the cost, i.e. whether you require an egg donor or not and how many cycles of IVF you need before your surrogate conceives. If a donor is not required, the cost of each IVF cycle can lye between $15,000 and $20,000, however, if a donor is needed, the cost can rise to $50,000 for each cycle. There is also a great influence on insurance and travel expenses on the overall rates. This was an ultimate guide and useful information about a successful surrogacy journey for the intended parents.